Caring ourselves, surroundings and childrens



Peoples often learn while living in the society, facing problems tackling them and getting lessons from them.We learn alot from our society  by helping each other and solving many problems of our life and society.
Where ever we go ,we keep in contact with many beings and watch things and get new ideas from those situations but we must keep our minds open to learn new ideas and to turn the difficult situations according to you.
During our visits in parks and play ground,etc we try our best for our childrens and always there for our childrens to help them and guide them .Try our every effort to make possible for our childrens to be more comfortable and adjust able and help them to learn more confidently to live.
We learn many things which make us very relax and healthy while living in the society and learning many things from our childrens, society and ourselves.
To turn our experiences into practices and get results from them relaxes us and solve our many problems.
To care ourselves is more necessary as our children copy us and become our imitators and act accordingly.
Our society also imitate us and give response according to our behaviour , thinking and act.
Sometimes people misuse our feelings and emotions.They create misunderstanding about us in  society, in the minds of our childrens and even create inferiority complex in ourselves.
To control every situation we must make every situation comfortable and lively.Handle them sincerely and obediently, so that your society llove you and praise you.
We use many products to increase our beauty but we must beautify our relations with society and childrens.Our need is how we tackle with our conditions and situations.
Mostly most peoples can’t help each other only few peoples are there for you to help.For your success you’re responsible for your deeds and performances.
Our peace of mind is when we won each and every game of life.


When we close our eyes we feel comfortable ,relax ,proud of our success and achievements we achieve after facing hindrances .Maintaining a balance in our society and devoting time to childrens and family is mostly recommended. Imbalance in our relations means imbalance in our life.
Enjoying every moment of life and making others to learn how to live is life.Never forget to make your childrens learn your experience of your life because they get new ideas and lessons from experiences of your life.
Our childrens can modify them according to their needs and use them whenever  it become  possible for them.
Caring one another ,  parents childrens, relations, society and surroundings .Caring can make you learn many lessons of life.So never forget to care each other.


Spending time with Children

Parent and children relationship depends on our love towards our children, our responsibilities ,  duties and how we manage them. We must understand our childrens before treating with them .Different childrens have difficulty feelings and they are also affected by our surroundings, socially, culturally, morally and emotionally.
Parents are care-taker and they are more responsible for development of child.Mostly simple parenting ideas work unbelievably if parents use that.
Mostly childrens need our support so we should always give them a support by  giving them 8-9 touches during a day to make them feel connected to their parents.
During challenges increases its dose 12-13 by patting or by simple hugs.
Eye to eye contact works alot for our children as they need it so always give your child a meaningful eye to eye conversation. It is especially important for babies to have that eye contact but children of all ages need us to show down and look them in their eyes.
Make sure and show your concern when they wake up, when they left to school, after they come back from school and before going to bed.
Make your child’s those moments very special. Always control your emotions whenever you feel like scolding or beating.Take a deep breath or count 1-10 and then act.
Ask them to study their favourite subject of their own. Never make them over stressed with studies.Make them good beings and decision makers so that they take right decisions of their life and become a successful person. Higher degrees don’t guarantee success and happiness. Not all the highly educated people do well professionally and not all those who do well professionally are the happiest ones.Kids are always in a party mood so never discouraged them.Whatever they like encourage  them and motivate then as sometimes hobbies becomes profession.
Never make your child to lie if he does so then you are harsh or you use inappropriate behaviour towards them
If  kids had poor self esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them.If your child doesn’t stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.If your child takes things that do not belong to them, its because when you buy them things, you don’t let them choose what they want. If your child is cowardly, it’s because you help them too quickly.If the child does not respect other people’s feelings,it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order and command them.If your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehaviour and you give little attention to good behaviour.