Spending time with Children

Parent and children relationship depends on our love towards our children, our responsibilities ,  duties and how we manage them. We must understand our childrens before treating with them .Different childrens have difficulty feelings and they are also affected by our surroundings, socially, culturally, morally and emotionally.
Parents are care-taker and they are more responsible for development of child.Mostly simple parenting ideas work unbelievably if parents use that.
Mostly childrens need our support so we should always give them a support by  giving them 8-9 touches during a day to make them feel connected to their parents.
During challenges increases its dose 12-13 by patting or by simple hugs.
Eye to eye contact works alot for our children as they need it so always give your child a meaningful eye to eye conversation. It is especially important for babies to have that eye contact but children of all ages need us to show down and look them in their eyes.
Make sure and show your concern when they wake up, when they left to school, after they come back from school and before going to bed.
Make your child’s those moments very special. Always control your emotions whenever you feel like scolding or beating.Take a deep breath or count 1-10 and then act.
Ask them to study their favourite subject of their own. Never make them over stressed with studies.Make them good beings and decision makers so that they take right decisions of their life and become a successful person. Higher degrees don’t guarantee success and happiness. Not all the highly educated people do well professionally and not all those who do well professionally are the happiest ones.Kids are always in a party mood so never discouraged them.Whatever they like encourage  them and motivate then as sometimes hobbies becomes profession.
Never make your child to lie if he does so then you are harsh or you use inappropriate behaviour towards them
If  kids had poor self esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them.If your child doesn’t stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.If your child takes things that do not belong to them, its because when you buy them things, you don’t let them choose what they want. If your child is cowardly, it’s because you help them too quickly.If the child does not respect other people’s feelings,it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order and command them.If your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehaviour and you give little attention to good behaviour.

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